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在香港，我們的社會長期以來，一直處於對立之中，街頭巷尾、公園樹下或新聞媒體，所見所聞大部分都是非議某人某事怎樣不是，名嘴大師眾說紛紜、口沫橫飛，但就事論事、理性分析則不多見，我們的社會病得很深，相信大多數人都有同感，在這樣一個五顏六色的大染缸中，我們能保有心靈清醒實更可貴。古語雲：「吾日三省吾身。」自我反省的功夫十分重要，我們凡人或許不必做到一日三省，但起碼在清閒靜坐當中，想想自己的所作所為，理性分析孰是孰非則並非難事，不好的事情發生了，不要都只怪別人有問題，以為自己都沒錯，這種只見他人的過失，卻不能反省自我的人，本身就是態度偏差，凡事都有前因，才有後果，可能你瞪人一眼，人家才飽你一拳。步入年年廿六歲的我，無意中觀察到身邊年紀稍長於我而又已退休的親朋好友，他們有個共同點，怕寂寞又不甘於寂寞。只要好友見了面，立刻逮住機會聒噪不休，甚麼話都一股腦兒的倒給對方，管你接不接受，似乎積存了一肚子的話，再不宣洩可能會爆炸！最常上演這樣的場景。幾個老人圍桌而坐，除少數一二人靜聽之外，其餘的全都各說各話，比手畫腳，口沫橫飛，你談你的，我講我的，加上年齡大、聽力衰退，因此嗓門兒特別亮，給人的感覺像是在吵架似的。也因為有了幾個靜聽者，所以越說越來勁兒，沒完沒了，經常散夥之後才發覺，正事根本沒辦好。晚宴後漫步回家中，沿岸自然海風又給了我另一種啟示，行到水窮處，往往是意興闌珊的時刻，這有形的水源盡頭截斷了尋幽訪勝的情趣，此時只要能放下心來，不執著於這視覺上的表像，從外在的窘境返回心靈，就能超越水源盡頭的局限，就能隨遇而安，轉而去欣賞周遭的一切。其實大自然是一本書，時時接近它，日日徜徉其間，你會從中學到許多，你會從中領悟不少，但你得不害怕獨處，不厭惡獨處，你得習慣獨處，方能在大自然中，在心靈深處尋獲這種山林行訪的自得之樂趣。人生有夢固然重要，築夢踏實才是根本。好說空話的人，往往沈溺在成功的幻想中，因而耽誤了努力的時機。坐而言不如起而行，如果光說不練，永遠成就不了大事。做任何事都必須腳踏實地，紮紮實實，有幾分耕耘，才有幾分的收穫，這是千古不易的真理。要滴下眉毛上的汗珠，才能撿起田中的麥穗。袁浩 Unless at society of Hong Kong, us for a long time, in not setting against, streets and lanes, under park tree or news media, what is seen and heard something, somebody of censure, how be for the most part, well-known talker master have different opinions and foam once fly to sideways, judge the case as it stands and reason analyze rare, society of us more very darkly ill, it is believed that most people have the same feeling, in such a big varicolored dye vat, we can protect soul soberly and really more valuable. The cloud of the archaism: ' I day my body of three provinces. ' the time introspecting oneself is very important, perhaps us ordinary persons needn't accomplish three provinces for one day, but in idle sit quietly, at least, think about one's own behavior, reason analyze Which is right and which is wrong difficult, the bad thing has happened, no wanted only strange others to be problematic, thought that could not went wrong oneself, this kind of fault that only sees others, but can't introspect the self- person, itself is that an attitude is offsite, the intersection of everything and reason have, there is a consequence, you might stare at people, others are a full a fist of yours. Step into every year twenty six -year-old I, observe age longer than I and relatives and friends that have retire slightly at one's side unintentionally, they have a common point, the lonely willing loneliness that afraid. So long as the good friends have met, catch the chance and wag the tongue at once, nothing sells the other side completely, whether you accept, seem to pile up of a stomach, does not lead off and may explode! Most often perform such a scene. Several old man sit around desk, except that a few one two people hark, the rest say all what respectively all, gesticulate, a foam flies sideways, you discuss you, I say, I, in addition, older, hearing declines, so the voice is very bright, quarrelling in feeling picture given to somebody. Also because there are several quiet listeners, say more and more enthusiastically, does not stop, often dissolve, just discover, proper business has not been done well at all. When if you can't stroll dinner party later, go home, along give me another enlightenment, walked to poor place of water, it is often the moment of the interest waning, this tangible end of source of water blocked and sought deep and remotely and visited the temperament and interest won, can only put down the heart at this moment, non- persistent in this representation visually, from external awkward situation carriage return soul, can surmount the limitation of the end of the source of water, can make the best of things, then go to appreciate everything around. In fact the nature is a book, often close to it, roams leisurely during that time every day, you will learn much more from it, you will comprehend it much from it, but you must not fear to stay alone, do not detest staying alone, you must get used to, stay alone, can in nature, in obtain the intersection of mountain forest and competent contented fun that visit in the abyss of the mind. It is no doubt important that there are dreams in life; it is the base to build dreams steady and surely. OK people of empty verbiage, Sheen drown in successful illusion, therefore has delayed the opportunities of efforts often. Sit and speech not as good as get up and do, say, practice only, accomplish major issue forever. Doing anything must do solid work, solid, cultivate somewhat, just have harvest somewhat, difficult truth that this is eternal. It could pick up the ear of wheat of the farmland to drip the beads of sweet on the lower eyebrow. By.tonyyuen99....