在香港，我們的社會長期以來，一直處於對立之中，街頭巷尾、公園樹下或新聞媒體，所見所聞大部分都是非議某人某事怎樣不是，名嘴大師眾說紛紜、口沫橫飛，但就事論事、理性分析則不多見，我們的社會病得很深，相信大多數人都有同感，在這樣一個五顏六色的大染缸中，我們能保有心靈清醒實更可貴。古語雲：「吾日三省吾身。」自我反省的功夫十分重要，我們凡人或許不必做到一日三省，但起碼在清閒靜坐當中，想想自己的所作所為，理性分析孰是孰非則並非難事，不好的事情發生了，不要都只怪別人有問題，以為自己都沒錯，這種只見他人的過失，卻不能反省自我的人，本身就是態度偏差，凡事都有前因，才有後果，可能你瞪人一眼，人家才飽你一拳。步入年年廿六歲的我，無意中觀察到身邊年紀稍長於我而又已退休的親朋好友，他們有個共同點，怕寂寞又不甘於寂寞。只要好友見了面，立刻逮住機會聒噪不休，甚麼話都一股腦兒的倒給對方，管你接不接受，似乎積存了一肚子的話，再不宣洩可能會爆炸！最常上演這樣的場景。幾個老人圍桌而坐，除少數一二人靜聽之外，其餘的全都各說各話，比手畫腳，口沫橫飛，你談你的，我講我的，加上年齡大、聽力衰退，因此嗓門兒特別亮，給人的感覺像是在吵架似的。也因為有了幾個靜聽者，所以越說越來勁兒，沒完沒了，經常散夥之後才發覺，正事根本沒辦好。晚宴後漫步回家中，沿岸自然海風又給了我另一種啟示，行到水窮處，往往是意興闌珊的時刻，這有形的水源盡頭截斷了尋幽訪勝的情趣，此時只要能放下心來，不執著於這視覺上的表像，從外在的窘境返回心靈，就能超越水源盡頭的局限，就能隨遇而安，轉而去欣賞周遭的一切。其實大自然是一本書，時時接近它，日日徜徉其間，你會從中學到許多，你會從中領悟不少，但你得不害怕獨處，不厭惡獨處，你得習慣獨處，方能在大自然中，在心靈深處尋獲這種山林行訪的自得之樂趣。人生有夢固然重要，築夢踏實才是根本。好說空話的人，往往沈溺在成功的幻想中，因而耽誤了努力的時機。坐而言不如起而行，如果光說不練，永遠成就不了大事。做任何事都必須腳踏實地，紮紮實實，有幾分耕耘，才有幾分的收穫，這是千古不易的真理。要滴下眉毛上的汗珠，才能撿起田中的麥穗。袁浩 Unless at society of Hong Kong, us for a long time, in not setting against, streets and lanes, under park tree or news media, what is seen and heard something, somebody of censure, how be for the most part, well-known talker master have different opinions and foam once fly to sideways, judge the case as it stands and reason analyze rare, society of us more very darkly ill, it is believed that most people have the same feeling, in such a big varicolored dye vat, we can protect soul soberly and really more valuable. The cloud of the archaism: ' I day my body of three provinces. ' the time introspecting oneself is very important, perhaps us ordinary persons needn't accomplish three provinces for one day, but in idle sit quietly, at least, think about one's own behavior, reason analyze Which is right and which is wrong difficult, the bad thing has happened, no wanted only strange others to be problematic, thought that could not went wrong oneself, this kind of fault that only sees others, but can't introspect the self- person, itself is that an attitude is offsite, the intersection of everything and reason have, there is a consequence, you might stare at people, others are a full a fist of yours. Step into every year twenty six -year-old I, observe age longer than I and relatives and friends that have retire slightly at one's side unintentionally, they have a common point, the lonely willing loneliness that afraid. So long as the good friends have met, catch the chance and wag the tongue at once, nothing sells the other side completely, whether you accept, seem to pile up of a stomach, does not lead off and may explode! Most often perform such a scene. Several old man sit around desk, except that a few one two people hark, the rest say all what respectively all, gesticulate, a foam flies sideways, you discuss you, I say, I, in addition, older, hearing declines, so the voice is very bright, quarrelling in feeling picture given to somebody. Also because there are several quiet listeners, say more and more enthusiastically, does not stop, often dissolve, just discover, proper business has not been done well at all. When if you can't stroll dinner party later, go home, along give me another enlightenment, walked to poor place of water, it is often the moment of the interest waning, this tangible end of source of water blocked and sought deep and remotely and visited the temperament and interest won, can only put down the heart at this moment, non- persistent in this representation visually, from external awkward situation carriage return soul, can surmount the limitation of the end of the source of water, can make the best of things, then go to appreciate everything around. In fact the nature is a book, often close to it, roams leisurely during that time every day, you will learn much more from it, you will comprehend it much from it, but you must not fear to stay alone, do not detest staying alone, you must get used to, stay alone, can in nature, in obtain the intersection of mountain forest and competent contented fun that visit in the abyss of the mind. It is no doubt important that there are dreams in life; it is the base to build dreams steady and surely. OK people of empty verbiage, Sheen drown in successful illusion, therefore has delayed the opportunities of efforts often. Sit and speech not as good as get up and do, say, practice only, accomplish major issue forever. Doing anything must do solid work, solid, cultivate somewhat, just have harvest somewhat, difficult truth that this is eternal. It could pick up the ear of wheat of the farmland to drip the beads of sweet on the lower eyebrow. By.tonyyuen99....
The life is happy, life is happy, it is angry of course, the poverty is happy too, everything is happy with reason, only lie in being experienced by oneself, enjoy the fun faced any moment. Cannot so smooth forever in life, have, set will certainly have. Low tide in life, less than satisfactory, while changing, is another kind of happy burying the place? . But could experience, enjoy the real meaning among them and must see your heart and could hold these happiness of different class. It wants happy to be whom oneself determine, fall ill, until with happy when being poor happy, even can be very happy at the time of death. Happiness is not rich men absolutely, wise man, the last person's right, though I was very poor, very cumbersome, very petty and low, but I can still experience one's own happiness at heart. One can be happy, have no relations with you has something, and lie in the idea of your heart, by attitude of you, you to ' happy "happy ' attitude not clasped more make. Perhaps, there are too much anything satisfactory unable in life, there is worried and painful the uncountable one, it is like this, we are stronger to the happy expectation. The expectation is a kind of faith that everybody has, it is a kind of manifestation of the subconscious too. At a certain moment, the expectation is the embodiment of a kind of hope. We often say to others: ' you should be happy! ' we seldom expect whether oneself is happy while wishing others to be happy, I think pursue happy most great obstacle, too happy to expect too big. True life just as passing the single-plank bridge, when we stand in the bridgehead, we very afraid, but after we go over, we find, we imagine like that in the heart in fact, so long as we step out the first step, the second step insisted on, so go ahead step by step, not turning round, we will reach the happy other shore. If our reason More give up fear on it is one's own at heart, then can only see we on tentacles preceding but and happiness can't have. In life, we really so terrified tide over, the happiness is not actually very far from us, just all of us are unwilling to step out that step, the reason various at heart are so happy as to already take away for others after struggling. So we must believe oneself, must be confident, will there are only self-confident persons constant going ahead, the non- self-confident person marks time in where it is forever, will not have new discovery. We can't have been stopped us to pursue the happy outlet by "single-plank Bridge "in life. One's own destiny is grasping in one's own hands, others can't know your destiny, and you can't know others' destiny either. We want Heaven, but we can't appoint the person that appointed fails at the beginning. Even if erudite person of a person, if can't understand oneself, grasp oneself, believe oneself, cannot be deserved to be called a person full of wisdom. We want the constant one to create one's own destiny, create and belong to one's own happiness at heart, so you will gain the whole
world one day in the future. By.tonyyuen99
I cannot see one's own expression in one's eyes this year, have bright and hopes. Weariness, chronic complaint, losing memory ...........Celebrate the New Year for these days, anxious. Though live in the coast, like such quiet feeling very much. But more different this year, one's own body is worse ...Celebrating New Year, my feeling is lonelier; I think inside and outside of one's own bottom of heart, also. I begin to worry worrying, meet birth and old age, sickness and death around. I receive, overstate dark soap opera Sheen, pollute no longer, want, feed food repeatedly again personage operate the rubbish news under intentionally either.... I want a healthy life, the heart that and one are alive.... Unless all the time, happen by a lot of thing of chaotic state in which corrupt practices prevail, ones that cruel and ferocious one, have cannot help but, there is the one sad, that lives relevant, natural too constantly society.. . I often ask one, do I like such a society? Perhaps, I hope to get back to the simplest mood, then, believe one's own meager strength again.... Perhaps, I can't every have friend of difficulty by the help, however, I can also listen attentively to at least.... Perhaps, I have already no longer believed the simplest trust between men, but, I can also smile at least.... Let me hold the small hands that you became as emaciated as a fowl, let me have no face of spirit to hold you ignorantly, what kind of pain of injury let me listen to nightmare of your heart depths, what kind of torment is covered again, amazed by and afraid. Let me embrace your human body in delicate health, let me wipe away the torrential face of your teardrop of the universe; let me tell the bright and reddish black place of your cloud. How stout and strong the green vegetables of rice are, the flower flies the butterfly dance roam leisurely more, how I am want to say, I am willing to stay here. How is I think I would rather wait in here, let me bear you collapse slack and undisciplined shoulder. The hope of letting me support you to turn one's head suddenly, let me sing the kind-heartedness of your pure compatriot, innocent and pure the intersection of Ti and Tang, singing merrily freely, let I comfort you what course should follow have palpitation, it let guide I you tentacle can and paradise, let, I open by very heavy haze Sheen Sheen, spread the golden yellow love, make your and my mind warm. Close to me, close to me, you will find my chest beat as you, tremble as you. Believed me, heard from me, you will find my both hands had trains of thought that grew up too, dropped the servant's traumatic pain too. The well-behaved wholehearted love comes to set out, is in charge of its having money that pays the bill and exerts oneself effectively more joyously and pleased. The greatest good fortune is not to meet the calamity in life, but the greatest calamity imposes the good fortune in life. By: tonyyuen99